Backstage: The ‘I May Destroy You’ Intimacy Coordinator Knows That Those Scenes Were Tough

18 Feb 2021 | Press

Photo Source: Natalie Seery/HBO

By Casey Mink

Michaela Coel’s “I May Destroy You” struck a nerve with audiences, in part because of its hyper-realistic, challenging sex scenes (which depicted instances of assault). Fortunately, actors on the HBO miniseries had intimacy coordinator Ita O’Brien as an advocate every step of the way. O’Brien, a leader in the field who has also choreographed for series including “Normal People” and “Sex Education,” spoke with Backstage about collaborating with Coel and how she protects performers’ psychological wellbeing. 

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